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The Chilling Cost of Exclusion: Why Embracing Every Child Matters More Than Ever

  • Writer: Kristen Miller
    Kristen Miller
  • 2 days ago
  • 3 min read

The educational landscape is constantly shifting, with discussions around funding priorities often taking center stage. While the specifics of federal spending can be complex and evolve, any potential move to de-emphasize or defund Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) initiatives in schools should give us serious pause. It forces us to confront a fundamental question: What is the true cost of not fully embracing every child who walks through our school doors?


An ancient African proverb offers a stark and powerful answer: “The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down just to feel its warmth.” This wisdom speaks volumes about the fundamental human need for belonging, recognition, and connection. When children feel marginalized, unseen, or that their identities are not valued within the very institutions meant to nurture them, the consequences can be profound and far-reaching.



The Potential Fallout of De-emphasizing DEI

Imagine a school environment where the richness of diverse backgrounds is not celebrated, where equitable opportunities are not actively pursued, and where some students feel like outsiders looking in. What message does this send? It can foster feelings of alienation, resentment, and a lack of investment in the community. When students don't feel a sense of belonging, their engagement in learning suffers, their social-emotional well-being is compromised, and the very fabric of the school community weakens.


Just as the proverb suggests, a child who feels utterly excluded may act out in desperate attempts to be seen, even if that means disruption or destruction. This isn't an excuse for harmful behavior, but a powerful insight into the underlying needs that drive it. When schools fail to create inclusive environments where all students feel valued and supported, they risk creating the very challenges they seek to avoid.



DEI: More Than Just a Buzzword – A Foundation for Success

DEI initiatives are not about political correctness; they are about creating the conditions for all students to thrive. They are rooted in the understanding that:


  • Diversity enriches learning: Exposure to different perspectives broadens understanding and fosters critical thinking.

  • Equity ensures fairness: Providing tailored support addresses systemic barriers and allows every student to reach their potential.

  • Inclusion fosters belonging: When students feel valued and respected, they are more likely to be engaged, motivated, and successful.


To step away from these principles, especially in a society as diverse as ours, would be a disservice to our students and a detriment to our collective future. It would signal that some students' experiences and identities are less important, directly contradicting the fundamental goal of education: to uplift and empower every learner.



Investing in Our Village, Investing in Our Future

Instead of considering the defunding of DEI, we should be doubling down on our commitment to creating schools where every child feels embraced. This requires ongoing professional development for educators, culturally responsive curricula, and a genuine commitment to understanding and valuing the unique experiences of all students.


Let us heed the wisdom of the African proverb. By actively embracing every child in our educational village, by ensuring they feel seen, valued, and supported, we are not just preventing potential harm; we are cultivating a generation of engaged, successful, and contributing members of our society. To do anything less would be a profound disservice to our students, our communities, and the world we hope they will build.


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Sophia Pisciotta
Sophia Pisciotta
a day ago

Well put! Giving every child the opportunity to reach their potential is critically important. Thank you for this!

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